the past weeks were not completely a breeze, especially the first. it was as if i forgot how to make frens. which was probably the case after spending two long years wif a very close bunch of classmates. yeap but this week was when i finally overcame this barrier. and im writing it down for myself in case i need this solution again later in life haha. for pple like me, we take longer time to develop friendships. but once the friendship is strong, its almost impossible to break. but the way for me to start is to pluck up the courage to just talk to one person in a group. things havent changed.. im still really quiet in a large group of pple and i open up better in a smaller group. but according to my friend's theory, after pple get used to ur quietness they eventually start talking to you.
also on developing frienships, 1 John 3:18 really guided me a lot this week. it says: "Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with ACTIONS and in truth." the best friendships are not those where two pple are physically attracted to each other, but one where both devote time to each other and constantly help each other.
just now during sharing for heart of a fighter i cudnt really think of any failures that i experienced, but i guess learning how to make frens and develop relationships is probably one of my greatest failures, but yet i still pull through it.
okay i guess its to bed for me now.. must rest my throat. gdnite!!
posted by guitar123 @ 10:54 PM
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